I recently participated in an interfaith panel about
the relationship between religion and education. That opportunity allowed me
not only to become more familiar with several religions, but to get to know the
other panelists representing the Baha’i, Sikh, Jewish and Buddhist faiths. I
very much enjoyed that, and have appreciated our continued friendship and
correspondence. The Baha’i panelist recently invited me and the others to her
home for dinner. She also invited some people from a different interfaith
panel, including one person representing atheism/humanism (he would want me to
clarify that those are not interchangeable terms, but he feels comfortable
identifying with both distinct perspectives). In our dinner discussion, this
man said something like, “I’m not saying that religion does no good—I think it
absolutely does. I believe, though, that it is possible to achieve those
benefits without requiring religion. I think that you could get all the good
things religion provides—community, counseling, morality, etc.—in a secular setting.”
As a religious person, I obviously believe that
there is great value in religion, but I was unable to give an immediate
response—what could I say? Since then, though, I have continued pondering the
idea, and have come up with a few answers:
1. Grace:
Without a belief in God or a sense of sin, it would be impossible to feel the
same kind of sweet relief and rejoicing in an unmerited gift. It would be
possible to happily chuckle at a pleasantly serendipitous occurrence, but that
is essentially different from feeling that Someone has lovingly given you
something, despite justifiably withholding the gift.
2. Mythological
narrative: Religion gives people a mythological narrative which not only
informs their lives, but often permits them to participate in some way with its
events. This provides them with a sense of direction and belonging that
transcends the contemporary. There are non-religious narratives (and I’m sure
non-religious people strive to identify with them), but I do not think they
have the same power. Identifying with a historical or social movement is one
thing, but it pales in comparison with feeling a part of the epic clash between
good and evil.
3. A
super-human ideal: Without religion, humanity’s highest ideal is humanity
itself. With a belief in a higher power, we can look above and beyond ourselves.
Goethe captured this idea, I think, when he said, “If you treat an individual as he is, he will remain how he
is. But if you treat him as if he were what he ought to be and could be, he
will become what he ought to be and could be.” Robert Browing likewise wrote, “A man’s
reach should exceed his grasp.” By aiming not simply at the good, but at the
perfect, we encourage greater goodness.
There are certainly other answers, but these three have stood out in my mind. If nothing else, I can certainly say that my personal religious experiences and beliefs have been beautiful, uplifting, and meaningful in my life, and I'm grateful that my parents raised me with and within a faith.
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ReplyDeleteI agree with you. I'd add PURPOSE. Religion gives you purpose, especially in the LDS faith. We learn where we came from and where we're going. We work hard in this life for SOMETHING. We don't just lose the relationships we form. We can keep them forever. There's purpose in being kind and building good relationships with others.
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I'd been having the same thoughts since that evening. I love this post and all the thought provoking ideas it offers. I hope we can get together again soon.
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